What We Can Learn from a FBI Crisis Negotiator
Brian LaManna
When I run discovery, it’s not life or death.
When Chris Voss ran discovery… very different story.
โChris Voss was the lead Crisis Negotiator for the FBI for 24 years.
2007: He retired after 150+ hostage cases
2016: Wrote ‘Never Split the Difference‘ and detailed out all his techniques
These techniques work just as well in sales, as they do on terrorists.
…just with a tad less pressure on the line…
1. Patience
-Don’t be afraid of the silence
-Aim to wait 2+ seconds from when they stop talking, to when you begin. They will often continue on if you don’t interject.
2. Mirroring
-Builds trust
-Use the last 3 words or 1-2 most critical
-Easy way to dig deeper without having to ask a new question
Example:
โณ Prospect: “Yeah, we just have no decided budget for a huge project like this at this point in the year.”
โณ Me: “No decided budget?”
3. Repeat + summarise
-Take in everything you just heard from them
-Now paraphrase and say it even more concisely back
4. Labelling
-Way of validating someone’s emotion by acknowledging it
-Use “It seems like” to make it neutral
โExample:
โณ Prospect: “We are just really tight on budgets with the current macro environment.”
Me: “๐๐ ๐๐ฒ๐ฒ๐บ๐ ๐น๐ถ๐ธ๐ฒ you all are being extremely thoughtful and intelligent with where you are choosing to invest”
Patience, mirroring, repeating, and labeling work during entire sales cycles
Especially powerful in discovery + negotiation
WIN THE WEEK!!!